While your final decisions set a course for your future, how you develop your sense of identity during the decision making process impacts your life even more.
When you are overwhelmed or avoidant when facing complex choices, you’re more vulnerable to have others make your decisions, leading you to feel more insecure, even dependent.
Instead, learn to harness the dramatic arcs in your own life story.
Start by uncovering the influences, conscious and subconscious, even intergenerational, that led you to your present crossroads in life. This builds agency, the belief that you have power within yourself to influence your own life.